Why do you love her?

Its just simply said in the hadith, translated in malay as follows:

“Wanita dikahwini kerana empat hal: Kerana hartanya, kerana keturunannya, kerana kecantikannya, dan kerana agamanya. Maka hendaklah kamu pilih kerana agamanya, sebab kalau tidak demikian, nescaya kamu akan celaka”.

 (Hadith Shahih Riwayat Bukhari 6:123, Muslim 4:175).

 

In my view the meaning and the objective of the hadith just straight forward and you can understand right away although without reading the scholars interpretation. Mark my word I just said you can understand, not that you should not read the scholars explanation on the hadith.

 

However, in bringing the meaning of the hadith into the practical life is something that the people always fail to do. However the system of life that Allah give to us, not just simply like a University test system which you'll have some attempts for you to pass. It is something more complicated that that which sometimes you have one trial, or two or maybe more. What is important to make it simple and easy for the people to understand it that you can strive for what you want and striving is take into your life account book.

 

Ok, the previous paragraph just about the overview of the life practicality.

 

Moving to the topic of the hadith itself, why did you love to MARRY her? Directly translated to english, becoz of 4 things: her wealth, her family/heir, her beauty and her religion. hmmm...something just happened outside of my window, and I look out for a while and just forget what should I write. The idea just lost from my mind. I'm not a good writer though. Never mind. It just ignition for you to look into what did scholars says in their book and not to take my word as a mark. I don't want to be responsible for any mistakes you read here. =)

 

But in my practical life, why did I love her so much, I still can't answer until know except that Allah give some ilham in my mind that she is the best mate. Thus I can't also answer what I can I give her except all the physical things. Thus make me think, being alone is much more easier. But another thus, I just going against the hadith which told us young men and women to get married. =(...ok, I regret that to be sooo complicated. It can means that I'm not sure with what I want(just stop on what u are thinking, just haywiring people!). Yet I should say that I a confident men. Yeah, always confident but not in this task. That's how Allah test me with my weakness.

 

Based on my experience, I just want to make the following quotes:

 

Men always fall in love with some women in one restricted place, just that he will be the one who either choose to express it and run towards her or not. But it can be also in both direction responses.

Ok, wallahua'lam, I need to focus on my biochemistry. T_T

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